Hockey's dark side
I haven't yet tackled the trial of former NHL agent David Frost on this site, and that's been for a couple of reasons. Most of all, what I don't want to happen in this space is for anyone, no matter what your opinion of the parties involved, to be deemed guilty before their day in court.
That said, this case needs to be talked about more than it has been in hockey circles.
A lot of the revelations in the Napanee, Ont., courtroom the past few weeks have been downright disgusting. Tales of group sex with multiple males and one female, allegations that Frost — then the coach of a team of 16-year-olds — partook in the festivities, and an apparent acknowledgement that a lot of it is par for the course when it comes to junior hockey.
Closing arguments in the case were made on Monday, with a verdict set to come on Nov. 28, three weeks from Friday.
If you haven't been following along, here are a few items to get you there:
Christie Blatchford, The Globe and Mail [archives]
Steve Simmons, Toronto Sun [Nov. 4, 2008]
Sex, lies and hockey tape [The Globe and Mail]
Hockey's seamy side on display [National Post]
Frost trial raises issue of sexual behaviour [CP]
Macleans live blog by Charlie Gillis [Nov. 3, 2008]
If you don't have time to wade through all of that — and take the requisite shower afterwards — here are some Coles Notes.
- David Frost, the former agent of NHLer Mike Danton, is charged with four counts of sexual exploitation, allegations that stem from incidents that allegedly occurred 12 years ago in the hotel where the then-coach and a few of his players lived. Testifying for the Crown were two young women, 16 at the time of the group sex; testifying for the defence were Frost's former players, who denied anything untoward had happened involving the coach.
- As it pertains to the case, the alleged sexual exploitation was that which what was done to the players, not the young women, making it a difficult case for the prosecution given the victims' denials.
- The details are horrific. The women allege that their then-boyfriends asked them to engage in threesomes (and foursomes) with Frost, and that they relented in order to continue their relationships.
- The womens' names are all over the place in the news; the former players' names have been protected by a publication ban.
For all of the ugly testimony and sensational headlines, however, the case's outcome does not appear to be much of a mystery — at least according to journalists who attended the trial. Following Monday's closing arguments from Frost's defence lawyer, Steve Simmons of the Toronto Sun wrote: "All that may be remaining — four weeks from now — are the likely acquittals."
Even so, it's hard not to see the case as symbolic of larger ills going on in the shady regions of the hockey world.
Here's Father Raymond J. De Souza in the National Post:
Whether or not the judge decides the Crown has proven guilt beyond a reasonable doubt, it is not reasonably in doubt that the Frost case has shone a light into the dark corners of our national game. At the trial, most observers simply wished to avert their eyes. For the sake of junior hockey, we shouldn't.
This summer, I read Laura Robinson's book Crossing The Line, the only piece of literature I've seen that tackles the subject of "violence and sexual assault in Canada's national sport." In it, she provides a long list of cases involving hazing, exploitation and abuse in hockey, and it's, frankly, not an easy read.
Robinson was quoted in a story by The Canadian Press yesterday on the issue of group sex:
"I don't want to paint all the players with the same brush, but I do think there's a culture, and a very powerful culture in junior hockey and it probably exists in other sports.
"It is about watching one another. It's all about showing the other guys in the room that they're a guy."
What it is is a sickness.
Hockey in this country unfortunately places kids in vulnerable positions, away from their families at 15 or 16 and often without true guidance or boundaries other than those instilled on the ice. It's a system that, while improving, has a long ways to go — especially at levels below major junior hockey, further from the spotlight.
There are far more incidents than we ever hear of because players simply won't talk. Being exploited, and used, doesn't show "that they're a guy."
It ruins them.
Frost may not be guilty of anything illegal, but he almost certainly should never have been the guardian and coach of teenagers living away from home. My biggest fear is that this is just the tip of the iceberg — and that there will be more Mike Dantons down the line.
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the only piece of literature I’ve seen that tackles the subject of “violence and sexual assault in Canada’s national sport.”
What about Sheldon Kennedy’s memoir?
Anyways, this is simply awful stuff, and the full light of day needs to be shown on this whole mess. Kudos for bringing this up here, James.
by Dirk Hoag on Nov 5, 2008 10:04 AM CST reply actions 0 recs
Monster Frost
Theo Fleury is also working on a bio and tell all that he promises will unveil much of what he endured in junior hockey with Graham James – a Frost of an earlier era who has been charged and banished from the Canadian shores.
Perhaps one day, the Fleury, Kennedy and Laura Robinsonn books could be made into required reading for junior hockey players, and those in lower leagues.
As a former coach, who once coached a formerly abused player locally, it is no sight to see a talented kid coming to games already dressed in full gear and leaving the same way, never setting foot with friends in the dressing room.
I was never privy to what went on involving the 12 year old child, but seeing a kid who evidentally loved each minute on the ice, but couldn’t bring himself to smile off it, is something that always pains me when Frost is brought up.
These kids need their voices and smiles back. The adults who fail to speak of such horrors, for fear of not being seen as a “guy”, are robbing these kids of their courage.
One future Hall Of Famer who needs to speak up is Joe Sakic, a former team mate of Fleury and Kennedy in junior. His stature and respect among the game’s current elite, might just be what this issue needs to light to fire and find brave ways to put it out.
by Robert L on Nov 5, 2008 10:36 AM CST reply actions 0 recs
I think that would actually pose as Theo’s second bio. He had released one back in the late 90s I believe, but I don’t recall reading about his junior hockey days in all that vivid detail. Perhaps it was something he kept hidden up until recently.
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by FrankD on Nov 5, 2008 11:09 AM CST up reply actions 0 recs
Sakic
If Sakic does have something to say — even if he saves it for an awareness crusade during retirement — that would be more significant than a Hall of Fame career.
This seems to be one of those dark issues that’s kept “in the family,” something hockey people don’t want to talk about because it’s a downer, it’s not funny, it doesn’t make for happy banter. Which, of course, is precisely the setting that allows manipulators (to put it lightly) like Frost to conduct their sick trade. Like rape a generation ago, this needs more publicity and frank talk so that victims feel no shame and are encouraged to come forward, and would-be victims are aware of the warning signs.
Bravo for bringing this up in this forum, James.
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by Dominik on Nov 5, 2008 11:16 AM CST up reply actions 0 recs
Unbelievable.
James,
As awkward as it is to say this, thank you for making this post.
We often forget how difficult it must be, as you say, to be on your own at such an impressionable age with very little direct guidance and complete trust in a coach.
Very little of the junior culture – good or bad – is covered here in the States. While it’s disheartening to hear about the monstrosities Frost committed, I like to believe there are coaches out there who care for players like they are family.
by agreatdayforhockey on Nov 5, 2008 1:50 PM CST reply actions 0 recs
The last taboo
Great post, James, as always.
The biggest problem, of course, is the rampant homophobia in sports. It’s the last, greatest taboo, and until that is overcome and dispensed with, there are always going to be problems. Until the hockey world finds its gay Jackie Robinson, the fear of gays, the sports closet and the subsequent abuse by coaches and officials could very well continue. Some day, sports teams and the public will regard out gay athletes as no more unusual than black athletes. But until then, the potential will always be there.
by Phillie on Nov 5, 2008 4:07 PM CST reply actions 0 recs
Agreed. I just don’t know when we’ll finally see that happen.
by James Mirtle on Nov 5, 2008 4:32 PM CST up reply actions 0 recs
That sadly won't happen
Unless society as a whole do it.
by Drakenlot on Nov 6, 2008 9:50 AM CST up reply actions 0 recs
Sad
Not to imply that anyone here doesn’t recognize this, but I would like to point out that the type of group sex described in this post requires the complete dehumanization of the woman/girl involved. It’s absolutely tragic that apparently that these young boys are exposed to, and participate in, this level of systematic misogyny. My heart breaks for the girls involved in this situation.
Teenagers need to be protected from unscrupulous adults, but they also need to be protected from themselves.
by Katebits on Nov 6, 2008 2:31 PM CST reply actions 0 recs

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